There is a deeply erotic sense in binding and immobilizing a partner. This helps to feel the partner better and even switch roles. Moreover, feeling insecure can help you relax, feel stronger desire, and surrender to your own feelings.
How to start bondage games
It is not necessary to start a dialogue about a new sex practice directly. For beginners, it is desirable to watch interesting bondage video together to learn some techniques. Or you can say you want to wear a blindfold tonight and ask your partner to give you a massage. After that, do not forget to tell what you experienced – share with your partner whether you felt good from his actions and what you would like to do next.
- Start with something simple and clear, like tying your partner’s hands. No complicated devices and nodes.
- Your goal at the beginning of the game is to feel your own boundaries and the boundaries of your partner, to feel where the boundary of the permissible ends.
- By the way, it’s better to make a list of “do / no / maybe” before starting. Then you can go a little further and tie your hands to your feet.
By connecting the wrists and ankles in front or behind, it will turn out to be quite hard to tie a partner in bed. Make sure with your partner that the rope is long enough.
Are there any basic principles?
When designing the structure of bondage, consider the flexibility of the person being bound, your goals (including intended positions for sex), and whether the person being bound wants to experience pain. You can limit the mobility of only one part of the body, tie a partner to a bed or column, and also hang him. But the most important thing in any scenario is safe for health.
